Is sex worth losing your junk?

When a male honeybee mates with the queen, his genitals are left behind in the queen, this is because when he climaxes the genitals are torn from his body as he explodes.  This is a way to prevent any other males from mating with the queen, but alas all males have a hairy structure on the tip of their phallus to remove the previous male's genitalia.